treat every problem as your gift > If you see your problems as curses, the motivation your're looking for in life will be hard to find. If you learn to love the opportunities your problems present, then your motivational evergy will rise
For example one of my close relative died not long ago, I treated this problem as a gift for me because now I learn to love and to treasure every person around me. I have to admit I was depressed for a couple days but I learn to treat it as if it was a gift. Because most of us have experienced a number of these incidents, we're aware of the dynamic. What seems bad (like a death of someone close) turns out unexpectedly great. We begin to see the truth that every problem carries a gift inside it.
And don't forget to smile 
